It’s not a nice feeling when you suspect your friend of flirting with or trying to make a play for your man. Here’s how to tell if your friend can be trusted around your guy or not.
1. When your bestie saw your guy she said:
a) He is hot and gives him a nickname, such as ‘hottie.’
b) He looked like a cool guy.
c) She said, ‘Nice’ then changed the subject.
2. Your boy is talking about how much he loves snowboarding. When your friend hears this she:
a) Says she’s super interested in it too!
b) Shows interest in what he’s saying.
c) Tells him she prefers surfing and they chat about their interests.
3. When your best friend is around your guy, it seems she:
a) Speaks directly to him and kinda ignores you.
b) Laughs at his jokes.
c) Lets you guys take charge of the conversation.
4. You call your mate to invite her out. She:
a) Asks if your guy is going and seems disappointed when you tell her he’s not.
b) Asks you about your guy over coffee.
c) Says it’ll be awesome to spend some time with you.
5. You mention to your friend that you and your guy had a fight. She is most likely to:
a) Suggest speaking to him about it.
b) Try to make you see things from his perspective.
c) Lend an ear.
1. a1 b2 c3
2. a1 b2 c3
3. a1 b2 c3
4. a1 b2 c3
5. a1 b2 c3
Friend or frenemy?
From your answers to this quiz, it seems that your friend might be interested in your guy. This doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s going to be trying to steal him away from you, but it could just be a bit of a crush. Don’t let it get to you, unless she becomes a bit more intrusive, such as by getting involved in your relationship issues or if she behaves in an inappropriate manner, for instance by flirting with him. That’s not on and you should then talk to her about it without looking distressed ’cause that could make her feel that she holds power over you and your relationship.
She’s being nice… maybe
It’s not always easy to know if someone is being nice to your boyfriend or is attracted to him. For instance, a girl might laugh at all a guy’s jokes but she could just be polite and trying to include him ’cause she knows you dig him. Give it some time and see how things progress. If she’s really interested in him, then her actions will probably become more obvious, then you’ll be able to nip them in the bud.
She’s not interested
It doesn’t seem like your friend is interested in your boyfriend. She shows that she is keen on spending time with you and doesn’t care if he’s there or not. If she asks about your relationship issues, it’s really just to show concern. She’s got no ulterior motives at all from the answers to this quiz and seems like a loyal mate.