Bag your crush!!!!
“I need a miracle. I wanna be your girl. Give me a chance to see that you were made for me. I need a miracle please let me be your girl. One day you’ll see it can happen to me.” You hum along to Cascada’s track, ‘miracle’; as your eyes’ catch the latest hotty you’ve got your sight set on. That way out- of -your –league crush that you’ll believe will only notice you in your dreams. Here’s a way to get your dream to come true, bag your crush instantly. Your ‘one day’ might be today!Firstly girls it’s important to note that boys are not that different to us, they too are just as easily flattered by the attention we give them similarly to the way that we get overly excited by even the slightest look they gave us. It’s all well and good to wait for the ‘miracle’ whereby your crush approaches you, but how do you expect your crush to notice you if you don’t show him that you’ve noticed him. Being a forward girl is a big NO-NO, but being a friendly girl is never wrong.
Give him your million dollar smile every time you pass him by. A smile can make even the most stuck-up person feel pressured to smile back. A smile is the best emotion when you trying to come across as friendly and approachable.
* Get noticed…
while a smile may go a long mile, it’s not enough to get your crush to start crushing on you, so make sure that he notices you. Don’t be just a face in a crowd, be that familiar face that he’ll remember. While stalking is freaky and erky, following is allowed if done subtly. So don’t be everywhere he is but use certain unavoidable meeting places to your advantage. Go to the same social gatherings that he’s expected to be at. Make sure that he spots you around, seeing someone often and not knowing them makes them seem enigmatic and in order to put an end to this mystery one feels the need to get to know the unknown person or at least put a name to a mysterious face . Hence seeing you quite often will make him want to get to know you.
*Find him on Facebook…
Again cool it with the stalking, while inviting him on Facebook can prove to portray you as an over enthusiastic girl, checking his profile (which hopefully is open for public viewing) is never a crime. Try to figure out his likes, dislikes and hobbies, from his profile information, statuses, pictures and wall posts; this will prove helpful if you ever have to strike up a conversation with him. People are more open to conversing with people who are more like them than people who are likely to contradict their views. P.S Facebook is also a tool to check out his relationship status, any status other than single is a spoiler alerts.
*Befriend his friend….
This could be his good girl friend or one of his guy friends. It could even be a friend that you already had in common with your crush. It’s necessary to know your friend’s friends, right? So if his friend keeps hanging out with you or comes greet you in public an introduction to your crush is inevitable. Who knows that introduction might lead to your crush buying you a drink or two.
*Be his friend…
the only way to be able to casually talk to him is if you start befriending him. Once you started greeting each other when you spot one another, it’s an open invitation to sit with him when his alone, to strike up conversations whenever you see him or even add him as a contact on BBM.
*Don’t put on a show.
Once you comfortable with each other, just be yourself. Never act to impress. Putting on a mask over your true personality is never the same as simple as buying a not -so -you dress. Be true to your true self. People are more attracted to you when you be yourself as opposed to when you act like someone you not.
Don’t express your deep affection for your crush immediately; else you might freak him out. So simply give him random compliments. Compliment things like his hair, his eyes or his style. Beware not to over compliment him; one compliment every now and again is fine. Who knows he might start to compliment you back soon after.
You already made yourself seem approachable, friendly and fun, now all that’s left to do is keep your fingers crossed and hope, Mr. Dreamy picks up on your hints or starts to be thrilled by your personality. All that’s left to do is wait for him to show his interest in you and let’s hope he doesn’t take too long to do that.
Image Courtesy: wetpaint.com