Is He Hurting You Or Are You Hurting Yourself?
Before I begin, I must admit that there are a lot of mean and bad guys out there. They really don’t care about girl’s feelings and they really do see girls as collectibles almost as if they place them on a key ring. The worst part is that the majority of the time, their friends cheer them on and don’t ever see anything wrong with their behavior.However, despite this you do get nice guys in this world and if you’re lucky, you’ll come across one. You think he’s the greatest guy and eventually, you gather up the courage to tell him how you feel. But when you do, it comes out that he doesn’t feel the same way.
Your world is crushed and you cannot believe it so you begin smothering him because you don’t want to lose him and his view on you begins to change from a friend to a creepy stalker girl. He begins avoiding you or lying to you just so that he doesn’t have to deal with you and you find out and you’re crushed even more than you were before. So, my question is, is he really the bad guy?
At which point in this story did he lead you on? How can you claim that he hurt you when he simply just didn’t like you in that way. In this story, did he make a fool of you or did you do it to yourself?
Sometimes, you like someone so much that you cannot even imagine giving them space in case you lose them but most of the time, all you end up doing is distancing yourself from the person even more and making a fool of yourself.
There comes a time where you need to establish that you’re unintentionally hurting yourself because you don’t realise that you deserve a whole lot more.
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