Talking to boys
Smitten over someone special, but not entirely sure how to approach him? I’m sure we’ve all felt this way at one point or another but today, we’re going help you catch those butterflies!It’s always daunting when asking a guy out; we are inevitably placing ourselves upon a platform for evaluation. As girls, we fear rejection and we are not entirely sure if the guy we like even knows of our existence.
If you like a guy, don’t be a hermit crab and stay in your shell, be you! Open up and ask questions. Ask him about his interests; what movies or music he enjoys. That way you learn more about him and he learns about you. Guys love to talk about themselves so this trick is sure not to fail!
Don’t be afraid to be yourself!! Don’t allow the effects of nerves and sweaty palms to strap you down from being you! Be open and honest, never succumb to the interests of another, be an individual. Guys love it when girls are themselves.
Never be afraid to flirt! Obviously as girls, we never cross the line. It’s okay to subtly let a guy know you’re into him. Remember, guys are not mind readers, they do not pertain telepathic powers. So make eye contact, give him a grin or flash him a smile.
Be sure not to portray an image that you indulge in materialistic things! Guys do not like girls who put on a show, who are fake and who are drowning in vanity! Guys like real girls, girls who have flaws; girl’s who care about the important things in life and girls who are themselves!! Never change who you are for someone you fancy.
Lastly, if he’s still not interested, then that’s OK too. As cliché as it is, what’s meant to be, will be. You’ll be sure to find your Prince Charming someday!
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